rumour has it that pastor Chris oyakhilome told his church members that his marriage crashed because she was keeping bad friends.read what he said during a meeting with all christ embassy pastors and deacons in the United kingdom.pastor chris:I am here for your concerns about the on going domestic issue with my wife and I know it affects you directly been the ones under her leadership.
-This is not an organisation or a political party, so it’s not a place for you to air your opinion or scrutinise what we do. We had a vision, started and you joined us. If you don’t like what we do, you can get out. (we thought the bible is our standard and we should be able to check things taught and done with the God given manual)
- Churches where members air their views never grow (says Pastor Chris but we found out that history has it that churches that members can’t talk grow big to breakdown or collapse)
- Some pastors wives think when they marry a pastor they are equal to the pastor. My wife thinks so, as a matter of fact, Rev Tom was her pastor before I married her and Rev Ray and Evang. Owase were her leaders long before I married her. How come she thinks she’s senior to them now? (before now, she was vice president of BLW Inc).
- I already started Christ Embassy before I married her. I didn’t marry her and said we should start Christ Embassy. I was already pastoring. I already set my sail and knew my direction before I married her. I only said come and help me. (Meaning no time for family previously known to him).
- Be careful of the friends you keep. My wife keeps friends who bring out the worst in her and help her see the worst in people instead of keeping friends that will help her vision especially as the wife of a global pastor like me. (Rev Tom once described her as the grace they have and they miss her a lot, he said, she is the one that would still see a reason to believe in someone every other person condemned, when did this change).
- Bitterness is prolonged and accumulated anger. My wife is always angry and bitter.
- Allegations are either false or twisted information. The current situation is not as a result of what I did or what I didn’t do. I didn’t do anything to have caused an upheaval. (All the blogs claim she only asked for family time and togetherness and excuse from the numerous ladies).
- You don’t join a woman to fight her husband. (wouldn’t it be the same the other way round, you don’t join a man to fight his wife? Didn’t the CEC members, zonal pastors, position seekers; family etc all join Pastor Chris to fight Pastor Anita?)
- I’m not teaching you what is wrong, at least I have 2 girls who will one day marry and I want to them to enjoy it.
Ironically, Pastor Chris brought his daughter to the pastors’ meeting to hear all of the above about her mother, what trauma will that cause the child? We thought parents avoid arguing in the presence of their children.
This is not new in the body of Christ, Pastor Benny Hinn recently divorced his wife and the two reconciled few months after.
Please join Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Anita in your prayers for divine intervention in their marriage crisis.
Let’s not point accusing fingers because this can happen to anyone.
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Thursday, May 29, 2014
Pastor chris oyakhilome "Our marriage crashed because she was keeping bad friends"
rumour has it that pastor Chris oyakhilome told his church members that his marriage crashed because she was keeping bad friends.read what he said during a meeting with all christ embassy pastors and deacons in the United kingdom.pastor chris:I am here for your concerns about the on going domestic issue with my wife and I know it affects you directly been the ones under her leadership.
-This is not an organisation or a political party, so it’s not a place for you to air your opinion or scrutinise what we do. We had a vision, started and you joined us. If you don’t like what we do, you can get out. (we thought the bible is our standard and we should be able to check things taught and done with the God given manual)
- Churches where members air their views never grow (says Pastor Chris but we found out that history has it that churches that members can’t talk grow big to breakdown or collapse)
- Some pastors wives think when they marry a pastor they are equal to the pastor. My wife thinks so, as a matter of fact, Rev Tom was her pastor before I married her and Rev Ray and Evang. Owase were her leaders long before I married her. How come she thinks she’s senior to them now? (before now, she was vice president of BLW Inc).
- I already started Christ Embassy before I married her. I didn’t marry her and said we should start Christ Embassy. I was already pastoring. I already set my sail and knew my direction before I married her. I only said come and help me. (Meaning no time for family previously known to him).
- Be careful of the friends you keep. My wife keeps friends who bring out the worst in her and help her see the worst in people instead of keeping friends that will help her vision especially as the wife of a global pastor like me. (Rev Tom once described her as the grace they have and they miss her a lot, he said, she is the one that would still see a reason to believe in someone every other person condemned, when did this change).
- Bitterness is prolonged and accumulated anger. My wife is always angry and bitter.
- Allegations are either false or twisted information. The current situation is not as a result of what I did or what I didn’t do. I didn’t do anything to have caused an upheaval. (All the blogs claim she only asked for family time and togetherness and excuse from the numerous ladies).
- You don’t join a woman to fight her husband. (wouldn’t it be the same the other way round, you don’t join a man to fight his wife? Didn’t the CEC members, zonal pastors, position seekers; family etc all join Pastor Chris to fight Pastor Anita?)
- I’m not teaching you what is wrong, at least I have 2 girls who will one day marry and I want to them to enjoy it.
Ironically, Pastor Chris brought his daughter to the pastors’ meeting to hear all of the above about her mother, what trauma will that cause the child? We thought parents avoid arguing in the presence of their children.
This is not new in the body of Christ, Pastor Benny Hinn recently divorced his wife and the two reconciled few months after.
Please join Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Anita in your prayers for divine intervention in their marriage crisis.
Let’s not point accusing fingers because this can happen to anyone.
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Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Back On Track
Have been away for so long,am back on track.how many peeps missed my uploads??????i know u guys missed me.lol,I miss u 2.
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Ankara Cakes
funny but trendy..
ankara cakes are so so trendy right now...most especially birthdays..sorry guys I have not really been posting lately am been so busy.
toyin Aimakhu Replies Fans over wedding
“To all the people abusing us for the records,mysef and my adorable, charming, world best husband did wat we can afford n pls to all my fans stop buying pirated copy so we can have enuff money for party nxt time.. I love u all and pls dnt insult my huge fan cos the LV cake was a gift from a fan which I reali apreciate..tnx to all my fans u guys rock my world.Toyin Aimakhu tweeted: “Sis Fathia tnx for sharing dat mini blender,sis iyabo ojo tnx for ur support n cash,sindodo iya mi,dayo Amusa,lara,doris, sis mercy aigbe n hubby,aunty foluke n hubby,tnx a lot..uncle desmond elliot I love u."
“Hmmm to all my fans tnx a lot, idowu tnx for the cake,wumi tnx for the Z10…I can’t tank my fans enuff and my friends fadeke tnx a lot and oyin tnx for the drinks and DJ…U guys rock,”
“Hmmm to all my fans tnx a lot, idowu tnx for the cake,wumi tnx for the Z10…I can’t tank my fans enuff and my friends fadeke tnx a lot and oyin tnx for the drinks and DJ…U guys rock,”
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